1st Offical Day

Today was the first full day of our month without Greg.

Yesterday Greg left to begin his term at CDM (Church Development and Missions), a bible school in Maesariang, about 4.5 hours from Chiang Mai. This is a chance for him to gain a new level of conversational Thai, build relationships with Thai Christians, learn the high language used for Scripture and teaching about the Lord, to sit under the teaching of two very good teachers and go through the main stories of the Old Testament, from Creation to Christ.

The kids and I will follow in a month, after the school year is done at Grace. That seems like a long time. At least for me.

I know that military and government wives are often separated from their husbands for very long periods of time. But I have been spoiled over these last few years, and have grown accustomed to having my dear husband around every day. It is one of the perks of being a missionary team, we see each other all the time and work together.

So for this spoiled wife, a month sounds awfully long. To date, in our marriage of 15 years, we have only spent 2 weeks at the most apart. (When Greg first came out to Thailand while we were still in training with NTM).

I just got off the phone with him as he was getting into bed. He gave me the rundown on what his days will look like at bible school. Very long. Starts at 5:30 and ends between 10 and 11 each night.

And this will be all in Thai. He will be the only English speaker until we arrive in June. Immersion, the best way to learn language, right? That is our plan. :)

So if you think of us, please pray for Greg. That he would be able to understand as much as possible, retain the new words he will be learning and recall them for use when appropriate. When he grows frustrated or discouraged, that he would lean on the Lord, and not rely on his own strength and understanding. Also, that this time would be one of blessing for him and that he would be a blessing to the other students there.

And for us too? I rely on Greg for so many things, ferrying kids back and forth from school and activities, paying bills (remember, no check to mail here, all is done in person.) and of course taking out the trash. :) Please pray that we will diligently finish our studies here in Chiang Mai before heading out to join Greg, and to take care of all that needs to done to leave the city for a few months.

Thanks!

Staying up late because I do not like to go bed alone,
Tina

Update. Yes, already. I am hearing all sorts of creeping and crawling noises that I usually do not hear. We have had a HUGE amount of rain these last few days and I am thinking it has washed creatures out of their lairs and they are looking for a dry place to ‘hang out’.
So far we have not had any snakes or other beasts in the house, beyond the normal little lizards, cockroaches and ants, but are we taking bets that now that Greg is gone I will have the pleasure of their company? eek.

4 Responses to “1st Offical Day”

  1. Alicia @ Experiencing Each Moment Says:

    As a military wife who is apart way too often from her husband, I want you to know that I think it’s awesome you’ve been spoiled! I wouldn’t wish it on anyway, and even one day is hard. I’ve been without my husband for 8 months straight, and yet just a couple of weeks ago I burst out crying that he was going to leave for 12 days. He and I were both surprised!

    I totally remember having to pay those bills in person, and in PI they were always long waits, like a doctor’s office waiting room! I will definitely lift you up! Once you get there with Greg, how long will you all be there as a family?

  2. Shelley Says:

    We will be praying for you. I am also totally spoiled, so I understand. I will also pray that you do not see anything to big for Zachary to handle. :)

  3. Debbie Says:

    Another military wife here and I can say, Tina, it never gets easy, at least not for me. I will be praying for you and Greg and the family during his absense. I think it is wonderful that you have had so much time together.

  4. Teresa Says:

    I was reading a comment on someone’s blog and saw your comment Tina from Thailand. I was just in Chiang Mai in March with my church. We worked with the youth during the World Venture conference held at the Empress Hotel. I loved the city. It was my first time in Thailand. It just seemed like a small world to see someone from Thailand blogging!

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